Qualities Men Should Have Are......???

I came across this video last few days.


p/s: Obviously I am NOT that girl in this video. =.="

 There are few qualities that she mentioned about guys that girls will like, such as being fit, tone up, no beer belly, being yummy and have talents. Not to judge her or anyone, here is what I thought. 

Qualities Men Should Have Are: -

1) Being Ambitious    
A guy must be ambitious in order to succeed in his work and life, regardless what industry he is in. A person who is ambitious knows what he wants, and has targets in his life. Staying in a same position in a company for 10 years is not cool, unless he is the boss himself. Even for ladies, we wouldn't want to be on the same position and never get promoted right? If a lady is ambitious enough, why can't man? 

“A slave has but one master; an ambitious man has as many masters as there are people who may be useful in bettering his position.” - Jean de la Bruyere quotes (French satiric moralist, 1645-1696)

2) Family is Priority
I think a man who puts family before friends is sweet. In this case, I don't mean those mommy's boy. Instead, I mean man who put his girlfriend or wife and children before friends. Everything he does, he thinks of his family. Every plans included his family. He don't just plan for himself, he plans for his girlfriend or wife; he plans for his children. He knows to spend time with family when he has free time. Vacation and short trip with family is always on his mind when he has holidays. Don't you girls adore such guy? At least I do. (and not to show off, my boyfriend is such guy!! ^_* )   


 “A man travels the world over in search of what he needs, and returns home to find it.” - George Moore

3) Four Nos'
Smoking, Drinking, Gambling, and Engage with Prostitutes are the four Nos' that we always said. People might find me selfish and think these four Nos' are actually very common nowadays. But to me, a real man don't do things or has habits that hurt himself and his family. Hurt himself because the four Nos' will harm his health, his psychological being, and daily functions IF he overdoes them. Hurt his family because if  all the aspects mentioned above really happened, your family will be sad, and might face dilemma, either financially, physically, or psychologically. Out of all four Nos, moderate usage of drinking is acceptable, but not the other threes. 


“Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live.” - Jim Rohn quotes (American Speaker and Author) 
 
4) Good Temper
Good temper is very important. I don't wanna guy that will throw tantrums and lose temper over every single little things. Not to make assumptions, but the possibilities of violence and abuse to happen are high. I don't want to live with fear. 
 

 “Good temper is an estate for life” - William Hazlitt quotes (British Writer, 1778-1830)

5) Financially Independent
I am not saying being very rich, but at least you are financially independent, you earn enough for your car, house, credit card, and life. Another thing about financially independent is that, your parents are rich doesn't mean you, as a son are rich too k. Being financially independent also means you doesn't rely on your family! I really can't stand those rich-second-generations that thought they are so rich, but the matter of fact is that one day their parents still alive, the money is still belong to their parents. =.=" 

Come one men! Earn your own money la! 



 "Today, there are three kinds of people:  the have's, the have-not's, and the have-not-paid-for-what-they-have's." - Earl Wilson

So these are the qualities I think men should have. What say you? Leave your comments and share with me! Boys and girls are welcomed!! :)


Cheers & Love always,
Valerie Chua aka PrinCess MiHaRu

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